Monday, September 19, 2005

No more Dominants, 'cept Z

I spent a good chunk of this summer looking for--and meeting--Dominants I could become involved with in addition to Z, but there was no one I met I wanted to pursue a connection with, and my connection with Z is now so intense (and rewarding) I'm going to hold off on another relationship with a Dominant.
I'm fine with D/s elements in other connections--spanking, restraints, blindfolds, etc-but I am not going to give myself to anyone else in the way I have to Z--it's just impossible (for me) to have that bond with two people.
I feel good about this decision, and surprised at how well things with Z have been going.
From an uneven beginning, we've made quite a tie (forgive the pun).

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Anonymous said...

I cannot imagine subbing to anyone but MFC. There's so much trust and intimacy in true submission that I think you're right to want the kind of connection you have with R.

I'm glad to hear things are going so well between you two.

Plum said...

Thanks, Freya...I am so happy about it.