He doesn't know

Z doesn't know what happened tonight.
If I was braver, or further along in being open about an interest in multiple partners, I'd say the following to him:
"I slept with J. It was really nice, but it wasn't as exciting as being with you. On the other hand, he has an amazing cock--and I have known him forever."
I'd also tell Z to make more of an effort with me..
.it bothers me that I may go away and not see Z because he is too busy--and yet he's watching all sorts of TV shows!
Arrghh.