tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13037609.post4963720652501007433..comments2023-10-03T06:17:51.769-07:00Comments on Plum, a ripening: Sex with new people and talk and telling truthPlumhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02224887658323238248noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13037609.post-62187405842949054612006-09-03T19:41:00.000-07:002006-09-03T19:41:00.000-07:00I'm new here, but it seems to me two things are ne...I'm new here, but it seems to me two things are necessary for an open relationship to work.<br /><br />First, both of you have to be secure in the knowledge that, no matter what happens, you will each accept the other's behavior, and it will not affect your love for each other. (Not everyone can do this!)<br /><br />Second, you need to be honest with your partner about your desires and actions with others, so he/she doesn't feel deceived or left out.<br /><br />We've lived by these rules for many years, and have stayed together happily while enjoying many outside lovers. I hope you can do the same!Cherriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01390800789656582145noreply@blogger.com